How to Write an Obituary

How to Write an Obituary

Obituary writing is an essential part of the funeral planning process. Obituaries notify the public of an individuals passing, and share brief highlights of their life.


Some people decide to write their loved one's obituary themselves, but others turn to funeral home staff for help and guidance.

Information We Need For An Obituary

Remember that we will write the obituary for you and with your guidance. You don't need to feel any pressure or anxiety about writing the obituary. We'll gather the information from you when we first meet. If you wish to provide us with the basic information before we meet, you can use our online form.


Other essential details to include when writing an obituary are:

  • Their full name
  • If a woman, her maiden name
  • Nickname
  • Their age upon death
  • Birthday
  • Birthplace
  • A list of the surviving relatives
  • The date of death
  • The location (city/state) where they died
  • Details about the funeral service: date, time, place
  • Date of death
  • Where the person lived
  • Parents' names
  • Information about the spouse and children
  • Church affiliations
  • Job or career information
  • Personal and professional accomplishments
  • Personal character and interests
  • Influence on his or her community

We'll help you to gather this information, and we're happy to offer some suggestions.  Please don't hesitate to contact us as additional information might come to mind.

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